Millies Last Valentine

We were sitting at the table my father and I conversing at the oak table as we had many times before, but this time was different.

My mother Millie had passed away suddenly in September 2012 since family expenses were going towards the Memorial service we could not afford autopsy to see that she passed away in the hallway of our family home.

You have to know that she had battled and won the battle of breast cancer for 10 years in remission, they had taken the port in her shoulder where she had received Chemon.

Dad a year later in 2013 was moving the refrigerator away from the stove and found a letter in my mother's well known handwriting that she knew he would eventually found this letter and she over 60 years plus of marriage had fallen more deeply in love. She said that when she went back for checkup with doctor that cancer had come back and maybe have only less than 5 years to live. She did not want to let anyone know because she did not want to be treated differently. She hoped Dad would forgive her for not letting anyone know but she loved Dad with all her heart and soul with "Love Millie" at the end.

When he told me both of us had tears in our eyes. My mother got the last word and it was wonderfully loving and considerate Valentine.

Beauty and Business from Within to Outer Limits of YOU: STYL-ElaTion/Elevation!

Beauty and Business from Within to Outer Limits of YOU: STYL-ElaTion/Elevation!: STYL-ElaTion/Elevation!

Inner Attitude let it be Expressed in Your Face and Your Speech

Inner Attitude let it be Expressed in Your Face and Your Speech

(Translated into Spanish, French, and German)

Your Inner attitude does reflect through the countenance of your face. Have you ever noticed a jolly happy older person who has a youthful attitude...it is refreshing versus standing in line especially when most of the time we end up with people cussing, criticizing and cutting down other people--such an ugly situation. 

There once was a pretty lady with long fingernails all done up, long flourishing eyelashes and long black hair with every strand in place but she had such a "nasty attitude" and the things that exuded from her brash mouth made my insides turn upside down.  It was too bad the inner beauty was not there to match her outer beauty. 

Business can be a challenge but when using the phone as a source of media you understand that you are invading on some one's privacy and just like barging in a door is rude and unacceptable--it is the same with rudely talking over your client, patient or customer to express what you have to offer in services, follow up appointments or delivery of product. Don't be ugly in your attitude, your speech and work on exercising the inner beauty within YOU.


(Spanish)

Actitud interior que se puede expresar en su cara y su voz

(Por favor, perdone mi traducción)

Su actitud interior refleja a través del rostro de su cara. ¿Alguna vez ha notado una persona feliz, alegre años que tenga una actitud juvenil ... es refrescante en comparación con estar parado en línea, especialmente cuando la mayoría de las veces nos encontramos con la gente maldiciendo, la crítica y la tala de otras personas - una situación tan fea.


 Había una vez una bella dama con las uñas largas todo hecho, largas pestañas y del florecimiento de pelo negro y largo, con cada hebra en su lugar, pero ella tenía una "actitud repugnante" y las cosas que emanaba de su boca insolente hecho mi interior dé la vuelta. Era una lástima que la belleza interior no estaba allí para que coincida con su belleza exterior.


 Las empresas pueden ser un reto, pero al utilizar el teléfono como una fuente de los medios de comunicación a entender que están invadiendo la privacidad de alguien, y al igual que irrumpir en una puerta es grosero e inaceptable - que es lo mismo con rudeza a hablar sobre su cliente, paciente o el cliente para expresar lo que tiene que ofrecer en los servicios, las citas de seguimiento o la entrega del producto. No seas fea en su actitud, su discurso y el trabajo en el ejercicio de la belleza que llevas dentro.

Corazón de Dios

Debemos ser un pueblo conforme al corazón de Dios

Él nos ha dado más de un momento o dos ¿

Cuánto más hemos de ser ¿

O vamos a hacer el loco en una fiebre (o tonto con fiebre)

Nuestra respiración viene de Dios, pero con él se burlan de Él. ¿

Quiénes son los que el ridículo?

Katherine escrita en 1986

(French)

Attitude intérieure laisser s'exprimer en votre visage et votre discours

(S'il vous plaît pardonnez-moi de traduction)

Votre attitude intérieure reflète à travers le visage de votre visage. Avez-vous déjà remarqué un joyeux personne heureuse et plus qui a une attitude jeune ... il est rafraîchissant par rapport à la queue surtout quand la plupart du temps nous nous retrouvons avec des gens jurer, de critiquer et de couper d'autres personnes - une telle situation laid.




Il était une fois une jolie dame avec des ongles longs tout fait en place, de longs cils florissantes et de longs cheveux noirs avec chaque brin en place, mais elle avait une telle "attitude méchante» et les choses qui exsudant de sa bouche sarrasins fait mes entrailles tourner à l'envers. Il était trop mauvaise la beauté intérieure n'était pas là pour correspondre à sa beauté extérieure.




D'affaires peut être un défi, mais lorsque vous utilisez le téléphone comme une source de média que vous comprenez que vous envahir la vie privée de quelqu'un, et tout comme irruption dans une porte est grossier et inacceptable - c'est la même chose avec grossièrement parler de votre client, patient ou le client à exprimer ce que vous avez à offrir des services, suivi des nominations ou de livraison du produit. Ne pas être laid dans votre attitude, votre discours et le travail sur l'exercice de la beauté qui sommeille en vous.

Cœur de Dieu

Nous devrions être un peuple après le cœur de Dieu
Il nous a donné plus d'un instant ou deux
Combien plus devrions-nous être
Ou allons-nous, jouer l'imbécile dans la fièvre (ou fou fiévreuse)
Notre souffle vient de Dieu, mais nous moquer de lui
Qui êtes-vous un imbécile de?

Katherine écrite 1986

(German)

Innere Haltung lassen Sie es in Ihr Gesicht und Ihre Rede ausgedrückt werden

(Bitte entschuldigen Sie meine Übersetzung)

Ihre innere Haltung widerspiegeln tut durch das Antlitz von Ihrem Gesicht. Haben Sie jemals bemerkt einen lustigen glücklich ältere Person, die eine jugendliche Haltung hat ... es ist im Vergleich zu in der Schlange erfrischend vor allem, wenn die meisten der Zeit, dass wir am Ende mit Menschen fluchen, zu kritisieren und Abholzen von anderen Menschen - wie eine hässliche Situation. Es war einmal eine hübsche Dame mit langen Fingernägeln alles getan up, lange blühende Wimpern und lange schwarze Haare mit jedem Strang vorhanden, aber sie hatte so eine "böse Haltung" und die Dinge, die von ihrem frechen Mund verströmte gemacht mein Inneres auf den Kopf stellen. Es war schade, die innere Schönheit war nicht da, um sie äußere Schönheit entsprechen. Die Wirtschaft kann eine Herausforderung sein, aber wenn Sie das Telefon als Quelle für Medien, die Sie verstehen, dass Sie auf jemandem in die Privatsphäre eindringende und genau wie barging in einer Tür ist unhöflich und inakzeptabel - es ist das gleiche mit grob reden über Ihre Kunden, Patienten oder Kunden, um das auszudrücken, was Sie im Dienste anbieten, Follow-up Termine oder Lieferung der Ware haben. Seien Sie nicht hässlich in Ihre Haltung, Ihre Rede und die Arbeit an der Wahrnehmung die innere Schönheit in dir.

Herz Gottes

Wir sollten ein Volk nach dem Herzen Gottes
Er hat uns mehr als einen Augenblick oder zwei
Wie viel mehr sollten wir uns
Oder werden wir, spielen die Narren im Fieber (oder fieberhaften Narr)
Unser Atem kommt von Gott, aber wir verspotten ihn
Wer bist du ein Narr, der?

Katherine geschrieben 1986

Undo edits

Undo edits

 

The Beginning, the Foundation and the Elation

It is important in the competitive business and personal world we live in is to "Invest in Yourself" predisposition and make your Best Presentation.  You will be judged even though we are taught not to "judge a book by its cover", but human nature always comes into play.  There are so many examples from magazine covers of "starlets" who are found by paparazzi without their makeup and they are not pleasant to the eye, however, they have invested in themselves both in fashion and makeup. 

The earliest "Stylation" in History was the "Queen of Sheba" of course, some of us have seen the mega starlet in the early film and how stunning she was but she was not only beautiful, but handled the business of a whole nation.  There are a number of women in history that did not have downbeat lives, but were exemplary to their business and made history absolutely interesting.

Whether you tend to be:

•  Excitable, life of the party, creative or dramatic.  You prefer to in the company of friends and the "spotlight" and only sometimes or rarely left alone to reflect on life. The passion and the aggressive excitement in your relationships whether romantic or not, and require in a relationship to be the attention getter type. 
• Devoted, conscientious, highly respectful and conservative in physical  appearance. There are high standards for what you believe is right and wrong. Your dress or fashion is an extension of your integrity in the actions you are portraying. You are extreme sensitive of others’ feelings.
• Competitive and enjoy accomplishing volumes of activity in your life; no victory is so precious to you more than jewels without a little "getting your hands dirty" work. You are defining what it means to be competent and  are not only ambitious in love, but in work,  inyour time and money. These blessings  are not taken for granted. The captivating personality and inner plus outer beauty makes you a shining star in social circles you evolve in and through. 
• Passionate, a lover of life, dramatic and a "flirt" – thriving on the "ambiance" of the moment. Since you "throw your chips in" to everything that you do, you tendency to over-committed, starting new projects and forget the old ones. You are so easily bored by relationships and thrive on new and exciting new journeys.
• Okay, check it out--list maker, a super ambitious and confident but a bit of a skeptic about life. This  realist part of you is the one who always preparing for the future.  The insatious need of a solid plan to gives you the "security blanket" you crave. While either your stubbornness or tenacity or perserverance is a great business asset it equals up to an element to challenge your relationships. The loyal finesse, honest to a fault and extremely dependable side of you create lifetime friendships and close family circles.
• Balance is your "middle name" with a "saucy" mixture of charm and practicality. You are the outgoing one and constantly engaging in social situations from blogging, texting, conversing whether it is in the media in the business world you are accused of being the aggressive one which makes you goal-oriented. Please cater to me is your "motto", and you definitely know how to appreciate the finer things in life. This makes very sensitive to minor situations that might have been innocently overlooked and are nutured and respond to encouragement like "water to a plant" rather than "crusty" criticism.
• The constant thought provoking into logic type of person the one who carefully and intensively looks at  each option before making final decisions. Though you are more desiring to be a follower than wanting to be leader, you find contentment and effective working behind the scenes and not wanting to be a limelight. You tend to be characterized as shy and keep reserved in nature. You re not into "love at first sight" and once you are in a committed relationship, you are super loyal and super support to the one(s) you love family, friends and personal relationships.
• The colorful audacious risk taker whose "life is drama and drama is life"  relies more on intuition than logic. Emotionally passionate about expressing yourself and idealistic person who tends to set lofty goals for yourself, push yourself to meet goals and exceed those. You are always moving the finish line and redesigning yourself. Romantically face front, your tendency conveniently relishes and wants to rely upon secure relationships that  emotionally give you that "kick" for the ongoing needs in working toward future objectives.
   The fact that we are all unique complex "canvasses of life" which artfully going through life bringing color, highlights, ambiances of light and dark to bring out the BEST in LIFE.   Invest in yourself, your PRESENTATION, your FIRST IMPRESSION is sometimes the only one you get in certain scenerios.  The beginning, the foundation and the elation of "embracing" who you are, putting negativity at bay and "embracing" the elation of Loving Yourself first and then You can love others better.   Be Better not Bitter.  Be Happy not feeling Horrible about YOU! Live and Pursue Happiness in the purest forms!

Four Generations of Beauty....